Your life roles of ‘earning money’ and ‘raising a family’, eventually makes you a robot. And guess what? Robots do not have friends. Now ask yourself, do you really want to be a robot all your life? Of course not, but then you cannot also compromise on your job or the time you spend with your family/girlfriend. Where should you or where can you bring your friends in this whole picture? Let us help you out. There ways of keeping your friendship alive even when your schedule is packed.
First Of All – REALIZE That Friendship Is Just As Important As Work And Family
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Several studies and psychologists suggest that friends are extremely important for an individual to lead a healthy, happy and meaningful life. Having your friends as a part of your life at any stage gives you a lot of support and strength. It is no secret that social communications dictate our level of happiness and helps us decrease our stress-levels. Please realize that the time and efforts you invest in friendship will only strengthen your work as well as personal life.
Always SHOW UP!
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It doesn’t matter how busy you are and how packed your schedule is. Make sure that you take out time and show up at all the important events of your friends, because that’s when your presence REALLY counts. Do not let your friends grow apart. Showing up at important events rekindles your friendship and keeps the bond alive. Now, what important events? Birthdays, Engagements, Break ups, Professional achievements, family functions etc.
Always REACH OUT!
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Now just as important as being there for your friends is making sure you welcome them to be there for you. Reaching out to a friend in times of crisis reconfirms the fact that you trust them and that you believe in this friendship. When you do not seek help, friends grow apart assuming you don’t need them anymore. Do not let that happen.
Use Your Phone
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The technology has advanced for a reason. It is not so hard to stay in touch. You can call once in a while. Oh you don’t like phone calls? You can text your buddy! Oh but texts are too much work. Hello? Social Media? Tag your friends in relatable memes. Keep liking and commenting on their posts. It’s in the little gestures that you keep your friendship alive.
Be Choosy
Not all friendships can last the test of time. Your busy years will definitely cut through many. But make sure you hold on to the ones that matter. At the same time, learn to let go. And of course, do not underestimate the power of making new friends.
