Everyone keeps talking about what we should do to maintain a sane relationship. All of us have our own tips and hacks when it comes to sustaining a relationship. Do this to be a happy couple. Do that to live a successful relationship. And so on. But nobody tells you what NOT to do. But I will. Here we go-
Forget Your Friends!
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Hey? I mean what? Of course you cannot do this. The fact that many of you end up doing this is why I am putting this on top of my list. Please do not forget your friends as soon as you get into a relationship. That’s unhealthy not only for your own personal life but also for your relationship. Your relationship must allow space for your friends and you will always need your friends to survive in this crazy life. Try to maintain the balance.
Forget Your Partner!
Hahaha! People actually do this! If you don’t want your partner to leave you, please remember them. Do not let your priorities shake. You must always take out time for your partner, even amidst everything else going on. Because at the end of the day, that’s what counts! Never ever let them feel ignored. Always value their presence, no matter where you are. The bottom-line is that if you love them, you will obviously never forget them. But if it takes extra efforts, do not shy away.
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Nobody, absolutely NOBODY likes to be controlled. Especially not by the person they love. Loving someone means liberating them and not controlling them. Both of you must let each other live your individual lives. Set your own priorities. Your partner is a grown adult and expects to be treated like one. Just realize that!
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That’s the last thing you want to do, trust me! Sooner or later everyone comes to know of everything. And when they will, it will be the end of things. So, please do not keep secrets. Talk it out. I am sure they will understand, no matter what it is. The best solution is to communicate and sort out the matter in hand.
Alrighty then, just don’t do these 4 things and you are set. I mean, almost! And then there are things you should do, but you know about them right?