The time spent on bed with your partner is perhaps the most private and special time the two of you share. It’s absolutely yours and yours to spend. Sleeping, making out, reading, having sex, watching movies or shows, etc are amongst the things you could be doing. Sex, mostly. But there’s one more important aspect of your time in the bed- The Pillow Talk! This underrated act is according to me, the most important as well as the most romantic feature of any relationship.
First Of All, What’s Pillow Talk?
As per the urbandictionary.com, “Pillow Talk can be any variety of things. It can be before or after sexual activity, or without that at all. The point of pillow talk, though, is for two people to enjoy each other’s presence through conversation.”
Now, what makes it one of the glorious features of any relationship?
You Are Extremely Comfortable
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When you are naked and with your partner in bed- you are at the most comfortable place in your life! And when you are extremely comfortable, you tend to talk about things you usually refrain from. The comfort and promise of zero outside interference that Pillow Talk provides is phenomenal and should be duly utilized. Many find this moment the best time to talk about their feelings or about their relationship in general. And I couldn’t agree more!
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Pillow talk can serve many purposes. If you and your partner are looking for something to rejuvenate your sexual activity, indulge in dirty pillow talks. You can shower your partner with compliments or share your wild fantasy with them. It is very important to keep the intimacy as well as the excitement alive between any couple. You can even talk about your crazy intimate times together in the past to bring back that erotic energy. The options are infinite. You just need to find the conversation that clicks and fetch you a fine lay!
Ask Those Questions
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The hustle-bustle of daily life keeps you and your partner so busy that you don’t even get time to ask the important questions. Questions like “Are you happy with your job”, or “What are we doing this weekend?”, or “How are we going to deal with random problem?” and so on. These questions are important and must be asked! And if you cannot take out time for it, let your pillows help you.
Relationships are complex. But life has naturally given us several hacks to sustain that complexity. Do not let those opportunities slide away. Pillow Talk is like one of those opportunities.