The words ‘long distance relationship’ are a killjoy to the other favourite three word confessions of ‘I Love You. One thing that we have heard most about long-distance relationships is the fact that they don’t work.
Let’s just say it’s not everyone’s cup of tea to stand the test of time and only some of them sail through smoothly. Although worry not, if you’re about to get into one or are facing any issues, here’s what could help you work out.
1. Making Up Time For Each Other
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Get over the arguments of ‘my work is more important than yours’. Plan your holidays together and make the most of it. This is what pop singer Ed Sheeran agreed too. The Shape Of You singer is dating his old school pal and while they have to spend a lot of time apart, Sheeran believes that a holiday gives you the right amount of time to get involved before you again move to your separate destinations.
2. Be Open To Avoid Miscommunication
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One of the biggest problems is that you’re not around each other and hence it is easy for insecurities to crawl in. It is best to be open about your problems to avoid any kind of miscommunication. High School Musical star Vanessa Hudgens has been going strong for over six years with beau Austin Butler, despite the long distance. In an interview with People, she said, “I think that if anything’s bothering you, don’t hold it in. Always bring it up and just talk about it. Uncensor yourself and just be open.”
3. Go Old School
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In the times of social media, at times you crave for simpler things and small but meaningful gestures. In this case, Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban should be your goal. When Urban is away touring for his concerts, he leaves Nicole love letters. Awww! isn’t that sweet?
4. Sharing Silly Details Matter
At times, it is important to just send a ‘tired selfie’ or a picture of your broken nail just to get a feeling of being together. The best advice for the same was given by Homeland actress Claire Danes who said, “We talk a lot, we text a lot, we send each other photos of our toes — dumb stuff.”
5. Get Used To Dirty Talk
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Sexual tension needs to be released and it is important for couples to talk about it. Don’t hesitate from sending a few dirty texts or trying phone sex to spice up the relationship irrespective of the distance. I’d advise watching Drew Barrymore and Justin Long starrer – Going The Distance which particularly revolves around making a long distance relationship work. The film tackles the sexual aspect in a very realistic manner.
