Those mean bad guys and those powerful and manipulative women look really hot and exciting on screen.
But what happens when you meet them in real life, and worse still, you fall for them?
Most likely than not, you end up with a broken heart and a promise to yourself to never fall in love again.
If you though this was the end of your world, wait, there is something else that can get worse than this.
Falling into this pattern over and over again, and getting attracted to and getting in a relationship with the ‘wrong’ person every time!
If you’re wondering how your luck could always play such mean tricks on you, there are probably a few signs you can check on, and find out your reason now.
1. You’re Scared Of Being Single When All Your Friends Are Hooking Up
Your friends are going out with those hot guys or have a gorgeous girl they can cuddle and be with, and there you are, alone, and still not in a relationship. The pressure of being single can be too much, and the only reason you end up being with someone is to be part of the group.
2. They Are Exciting And Fun And Bring Out All The Emotions In You
Image Credit: Movie – Fifty Shades of Grey
So the thing is, this person makes you feel happy and loved, but they also bring out other emotions in you such as sadness, fear, anxiety, worry, confusion and a general super-combo of emotional roller coaster ride that does not let you realize what a disaster you are going to crash into soon. While you go from one emotion to other, it may take time for you to realize that this overwhelming feeling is not love, but the opposite of it.
3. You Form A ‘Type’ Which Ends Up Being Wrong
You may have really been in love with someone but they broke your heart, and now, any other person who reminds you of them gets you all attracted. When that happens, you remember only the good moments and forget all the bad parts, and end up falling for this person again, who ends up becoming another one in the ‘type’ that your heart seems to fall for each time.
4. You Find It Exciting
Okay, so there is something definitely exciting about bad guys and bad girls and we get it. But once you start moving beyond the first few dates and things start getting a little serious where you see a little more of each other, this anger, control, mean streak and possessiveness won’t always feel as good and happy.
Before you start blaming the universe and your kismet for it, think about it, maybe it’s just you who is choosing this for yourself. Time to spend some fun friends time instead maybe!