3 Must Have Conversations With Your Soul Mate

Do you think you've found your soul mate on earth?

 
3 Must Have Conversations With Your Soul Mate
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If you look at your partner and Rab ne Bana di Jodi plays in the background, then that is a sign of having met your soul mate. There’s got to be a map to find that ‘match made in heaven’, right? But for those of us lucky kids who have stumbled into the right ones, kudos! Finding your soul mate means you’ve found your best friend, your confidant and your lover – all in one. You are emotionally tied to this person for better or worse. Here are some conversations you should have with your soul mate:

The Future

Do not be scared to talk about the future.
Do not be scared to talk about the future.

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If they’re the one, you are less likely to be discussing the future of your relationship and more likely everything around it. Your relationship with your soul mate is an unshakable pillar. Your conversations surround the talks about building your individual lives around it. Your careers, your dreams and your goals – your perfect partner will always root for your happiness and success. Pouring your heart to your partner is a piece of cake for you because it doesn’t seem like “tough talk” anymore. You can tell them your wildest wishes and you’ll be surprised how far along they can push you to achieve them. Together you can make it happen as long as you’re crystal clear about it. They’re your soul mates, not mind readers.

Your Insecurities

Un-box yourself in front of them. Tell them everything!
Un-box yourself in front of them. Tell them everything!

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You feel a soothing calm around your partner. You don’t hesitate in lowering your guards for them. You’re open about your emotions and thoughts because not only do they understand you but they don’t judge you as well. The sense of security that such a partner brings is precious! They help you find your weakest spots and hold your hand while you fight your battles. A great partner is the one who sees your flaws and teaches you to be proud of it. Your soul mate is not only comfortable in addressing your shortcomings but also embracing it.

Your Silly Dreams

Conversation about silly dreams with your partner gives your dreams a better chance.
Conversation about silly dreams with your partner gives your dreams a better chance.

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When you tell them the little things you enjoy, they push you to do them. You, an architect, have always secretly liked fashion styling. But the potential success of architecture has always kept you from publicly owning your love for fashion. Or it could be a simple case of wanting to learn rock music or pursuing teaching. What a loving and believing partner does in this case is that they convince you to follow your heart. Their belief in you makes you want to pursue your dreams. And their incentive is solely to see you gaining joy from whatever you’re doing. It is a win-win situation for everybody!

When you find the one that makes you happy just by existing, everything else starts flowing easily. Conversations don’t seem like a lot of work and what is secrecy even anymore? A soul mate is rare to come by and once you have them, you don’t let them go. They’re the secret ingredient to turn bad days into magnificent days each day.